Don’t call me, don’t write. Don’t show up in the middle of the night. You know that we needed some time and space to breathe. This is letting go. -Sozzi
When I hit 30, it was like I walked through a door into a world where I was done taking other people’s crap. It came on so suddenly, I was just done. I was done putting myself second to someone else’s needs. I was done always doing what the other person wanted to do. I was done with going along with someone else’s plans just because I didn’t want to hurt their feelings.
I sacrificed myself for so long, trying to please everyone else. I was definitely a people pleaser. The transformation was so swift, I went from going along with everything, to dropping my best friend of 11 years like it was nothing. Honestly, I loved her to the end of the world, but when I was done, I was done. I didn’t shed a tear, I didn’t play the petty game of caring what she was doing. I just ended it. Continue reading “Let Go of Toxic People”